Saturday, July 23, 2016

Lesson 7 - Goals part 2



Coaching for College Students
 
Lesson 7 – Goals 2

Last time, we talked about Goals and in particular  -– Big Hairy Audacious Goal.  This lesson continues that. 

First – you don’t have to pursue money and a high position as goals.  Being a great father or a great mother, a great little league coach, a great teacher, a great public servant are all very good goals.  If you run a restaurant, a very appropriate goal might be the best customer service in town.  In my lifetime, one of the most celebrated people was one who was a Catholic nun serving the poorest of the poor in Calcutta India – Mother Teresa.  She delivered compassion, hope, healing and love.  That is a worthwhile goal as well.

Second – you may have a fantastic goal. Maybe your goal is to be the CEO of Apple by 2045.  But, how many others also have that goal?  If there are 130 million college students currently, the odds are very high that more than one will be highly qualified to be the Apple CEO>  If you don’t get to be the CEO of Apple, but become a senior vice president in that organization or another organization, that might be as valuable. 

Third – you will need to reevaluate your goals based on where you are and changes in your life.  We talked of complex adaptive systems.  Maybe as you were working your way up the corporate ladder, you volunteered for Habitat for Humanity and that really changed your viewpoint and you are considering becoming a coordinator for that organization. 

Fourth – don’t abandon your goals too easily.  Again taking the example of having a goal to be CEO of Apple and in your senior year of college you interview with Apple and don’t get hired.  There have been many cases of where an individual gets hired by a company for a leadership position after working up to leadership positions in another company.

Fifth – make your goals large, a challenge, but don’t make them so challenging that you can’t ever achieve them.  If you are a male 5 foot 8, it would most likely be impossible for you to be the starting center on the Boston Celtics Professional Basketball team.

Sixth – are you willing to pay the price?  Let’s say your BHAG is to be contra master (contra mistress) of the New York Philharmonic.  To achieve that goal, you will have to practice 5 to 8 hours every day.  Do you want to do that?  To be the CEO of Apple, you will have to know a lot about technology, about business, about futurism and trends.  You will have to really know some many things quite well.  Are you willing to take the time to REALLY learn and know the business, organization and position you are aiming for?  To achieve some significant goals may mean that you have to leave your family alone for a while, work very long hours and in many cases go through divorces and family problems.

Assignment:
  1. Review your goals from lesson 6:  Take your primary BHAG and do an in-depth analysis of what you will have to do to reach that goal. 
  2. What time commitment is needed?
  3. What knowledge / degrees must you have?
  4. Are you really willing to “pay the price” to reach your goal?  Will it compromise your values and ethics to get to your goal?



And a quote from Harry Browne: Everything you want in life has a price connected to it. There’s a price to pay if you want to make things better, a price to pay just for leaving things as they are, a price for everything.” –Harry Browne

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